Mistakes

Mistakes: Everyone makes them.  Any person who denies this is a liar or deluded.  We lie, too.  About our mistakes.  Deny making them, or omit that you’ve made them: Same lie, different color.  But we do.  Many of us even go so far as to take our mistakes, loathe ourselves for making them, and show [...]

A Deeper Meaning

As usual, most of my best thinking comes when I’m running. Or sitting quietly, but honestly, with my schedule that happens so rarely as to be nearly non-existent. I was thinking about all of the things that I need to be doing, for today, tomorrow, next month, the year to come and for the [...]

A Memorable Failure

I made an offhand comment in a post a while back about how sauteing a green bean was “stupid easy”. It has rankled ever since. Don’t get me wrong: It really is pretty simple, and if you’re capable of other normal day-to-day activities—tying your shoes, brushing your teeth—I promise you can fry a bean.

But before [...]

It's Not Just a Coincidence

I’m not a big believer in just waiting for something to happen.   Just hoping to get healthy, fit, slimmer is about as effective as just hoping for fresh produce to just appear on your table.

The funny thing is, that nobody ever says “I’ve tried shopping smartly, but it doesn’t work for me”. If [...]

The Importance of What You Don't Think Is Important

The title here says it all: The importance of what you don’t think is important. And why not? First, let me give you a simple example. You ask someone how to get to a location, perhaps a new store that you want badly to shop at, it has just the “thing” [...]

Fighting the Tide of Sloth

Bloggonit!

Apparently I’m in the “learning” phase of using this as a medium of communication. I’m not sure how, but I was alerted to the fact that yesterday’s post was somehow half erased. So, I’ve removed it completely.

It’s a minor thing, really. Not the first time that it’s happened, although at this point, [...]

As I Was Saying...

… a few minutes ago last year, I have certainly had my failures during the newly previous one. My ambition exceeded my drive for a little while,

Living Your Dream

I’m not going to end the year on a broken promise. I promised Marc I’d say something about resolutions and the like, so here we go.

At this time last year, I was soul-crushingly idle at work, fat–well, pudgy anyway–bored, miserable, and lazy. The year ahead of me included my firstborn’s wedding and my own 25th [...]

Good Bye, 2009

It’s a couple of days before New Years Eve, the end of 2009. Like a lot of people, I try to take time to reflect on the year.

I don’t do it for nostalgia, but rather to see where I went right, where I went wrong, and where I drifted.

I start with where I went [...]

the simple, subtle sabotage of distraction

I recently wrote a post about goals that may (or may not) have been a starting point for anyone taking those first small steps into making changes. To me, goals can be tricky, because making a goal is a commitment to ones self, and for a lot of people, the easiest person to let [...]