The Art of Self Motivation

There is an art to not becoming a cynic. At least that’s what I tell myself. Cynicism is easy, funny, and universally embraced by all as wisdom. But what most people miss is that it’s too easy. You can pick apart enthusiasm and drive very quickly, dismissing the person as misguided, uninformed [...]

Getting Your Head in the Game

Getting My Head in the Game

I love Mondays. No, really, they just aren’t that bad to me. I get up early, get some coffee, get the family off for their days, and then start my day for real. Go for a run, clear out the cobwebs, plan, feel the blood pump, the [...]

Pushing the body only so hard

I had a discussion with phrits the other day and thought that it may be worth covering here.  Most of what I try to convey here is better goal setting, and I’ve been easing towards fitness goals in particular, but let me be clear about one thing:  My concern is that the people that come [...]

The First Monday of 2010

The first Monday of 2010, and I am struggling. Monday is a tough day: You have to get yourself out of “weekend” mode and back in to the groove of “nose to the grindstone” mode.  And the first Monday of the year, where for most people who have had a couple of consecutive [...]

The Learning Curve

This year, like every year, I spend a lot of time re-learning things I know, expanding the depth of the knowledge, and adding to things that I try to retain some modicum of expertise on. I try to find people with differing opposing views though, who can discuss these differences passionately, but with a [...]

the simple, subtle sabotage of distraction

I recently wrote a post about goals that may (or may not) have been a starting point for anyone taking those first small steps into making changes. To me, goals can be tricky, because making a goal is a commitment to ones self, and for a lot of people, the easiest person to let [...]

Thanksgiving Pre-Game

So it’s a couple of days before Thanksgiving Day, 2009. phrits and family are coming tomorrow, and we’ve had a good laugh at the fact that I tried to translate a bunch of Latin that he posted that turns out to be random words, not sentences, which, while the joke was on me, makes [...]