Expectations

I’ve had to adjust my expectations a lot in my life.  I’d say that it’s a safe assumption that most of us have.  Most people start off with an idealized view of what things should look like, feel like, or what our friends and loved ones should act like, and then we’ve been disappointed when [...]

Mistakes

Mistakes: Everyone makes them.  Any person who denies this is a liar or deluded.  We lie, too.  About our mistakes.  Deny making them, or omit that you’ve made them: Same lie, different color.  But we do.  Many of us even go so far as to take our mistakes, loathe ourselves for making them, and show [...]

Walking the Walk

Every once in a while, a friend or family member, or co-worker, or…hell, for that matter, total stranger, will offer an observation about me that makes me question my self-image.  And I know I’m not alone.  Our opinions of ourselves are often wrong. Corrected or questioned from the outside is the only way for us [...]

Thinking Like a Mathematician

I have a B.S. in Mathematics from Radford University. I started out in Computer Science, and RU’s CS program was among the first in the country to be accredited by the ACM, but today’s telecommuting technology wasn’t yet available. Being at home with my wife and child(ren) was more important to me.

With such decisions are [...]

Materials and Experience

I’m exhausted. Well, tired anyway. My employment situation has me stressed enough that I’m beginning to lose sleep. The fact that I’m not sleeping doesn’t bother me too much, at least not yet, but I make a point of being consciously aware of the situation. Being aware gives me clues about what else may be [...]

Quieting the Chaos in My Mind

For those of you just beginning regular reads here, or even some of you who just may not know, I am an early riser. Not a “Crack of Dawn” type, no. I get up way before that.   4am is not uncommon, and while I may sleep later (not very much later), that [...]

the simple, subtle sabotage of distraction

I recently wrote a post about goals that may (or may not) have been a starting point for anyone taking those first small steps into making changes. To me, goals can be tricky, because making a goal is a commitment to ones self, and for a lot of people, the easiest person to let [...]